How do I respond? How do we respond in the wake of events such as this?
More importantly, what is the answer? What can we do to prevent such tragic events?
Many social media posts from my friends express pain and anger, especially because this particular attack was directed toward LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) people. As a gay man, I understand the outrage and despair that many have expressed. I also appreciate the love and support from family, friends and community who stand in solidarity with us.
More than a few of those posts blame the hate speech that comes from the leaders of traditional religions and sects within those religions. My friends who are angry and in pain are calling for these leaders to end their words of condemnation against LGBT people, words that can incite violent action such as this. Many of us have been the targets of this condemnation and have felt the pain of being denied a place within traditional religion.
I applaud my brothers and sisters who stand for the inclusion of LGBT people within traditional religious institutions. When more of our faith communities begin to acknowledge and accept all people as equal children of God there will be less fear of those who are different; therefore, less violence, whether in thought, word or action. And, still I wonder, is that the answer?
Others are blaming the lack of gun control regulations that allowed the shooter to obtain an assault weapon with which he executed dozens and injured dozens more. They support stricter laws that would limit access to certain guns. I have also seen and heard others say, “Guns don’t kill people; people kill people.” While there is some truth to that, people without guns are much less likely to kill fifty or more people at a time.
I agree that the majority of guns owners are responsible, law-abiding, conscious, caring people. I have friends and family members who prove that to me. I stand for freedom, and I stand with my brothers and sisters who support a ban on assault weapons and additional regulations that limit one’s access to guns. And, still I wonder, is that the answer?
My Unity friends and colleagues, as well as others, have posted on social media photos and memes that say “Pray for Orlando” and other words encouraging prayer as our response to this horrific event. I have witnessed this as a common response to such events in the past.
I stand with my Unity brothers and sisters who say that prayer is our first response to all fear and violence. Prayer is always the first step because prayer opens our hearts and minds to be filled with the truth of God. Once we are filled we are more consciously connected and open to the inspiration of what is ours to do as a loving response, our call to action. I will continue to support and promote prayer as a powerful spiritual practice. And, still I wonder, is that the answer?
I stand with them and I will do what I can to support my LGBT brothers and sisters who are struggling to find acceptance and inclusion within traditional religion, and to end the hate speech.
I stand with my brothers and sisters who support more sane and responsible gun control regulations.
I stand with my brothers and sisters who are praying, and I will continue to pray for Orlando and for all people.
Still, I believe that the answer is much more personal and yet more universal.
In the wake of the event in Orlando and through my own prayers and contemplation, I am renewing and strengthening my commitment to encourage and support people in having a personal experience of God.
Yes, God is the answer.
The leaders of religions and movements within religions who speak words of hate do not truly know God. They have not had a personal experience of God. Those who perpetrate acts of violence do not know God. Those who fear and believe they must protect themselves with powerful assault weapons do not know God.
“Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love.” – I John 4:8
If there is hate in one’s heart, which is born of fear, he does not truly know God. “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out all fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love” (I John 4:18).
When we know God, truly know God in our hearts, we are free; free from fear, thus free from hate. Jesus said, “You shall know the Truth, and the Truth will set you free” (John 8:32). That we are all held eternally within the perfect love of God is the Truth that sets us free.
The answer is always Love. The answer is a global awakening to the Love of God and to our oneness with all humanity and all creation.
I am recommitting myself to doing everything within my power to live the personal mission statement that was recently revealed to me. My mission is to support humanity’s awakening to and expressing of the transforming power of love. I will do that through as many avenues as possible, including offering and facilitating more services, workshops, classes and meditations that foster deeper connection and realization of the God within us all.
I hope you will join me as we claim the only answer to all manifestations of fear, hate and violence – the Love of God revealed and experienced within our hearts and minds. Together, we can and will live peace, compassion and love for ourselves and for all.






