And
the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of
great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is
born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord. – Luke
2: 10-11
December 11 is the third Sunday in Advent. This week we
explore the aspect of the Divine that we call Joy. Joy is a state of being. Like
the other three Divine aspects that we reflect upon during Advent - Hope, Peace
and Love - Joy is a natural state of the Divine self. Our souls, as expressions
of the One, exist as Joy expressing. That we do not always experience the state
of Joy is evidence that we have forgotten who we are. Advent is a time for
remembering, a time of preparing our hearts and minds for the reawakening of
the indwelling Christ.
Joy is one of the attitudes of Christ consciousness that we
can embrace and embody as we awaken more fully to our Christ Light. It is also
one of the attitudes of mind and heart that we can develop now in order to
prepare ourselves to birth the Christ Light in this dimension.
As I say in my book, In
This Moment, Joy is…
The
wellspring of Life expressing in its fullness. It’s the inexplicable, inimitable
Lightness of Being that is experienced as all creation.
Joy is a state of being. It is an experience that is
difficult if not impossible to put into words. Like Peace and Love, Joy is an
aspect of God which must be experienced in order to know it.
Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you. My peace I give you.
Not as the world gives do I give you” (John 14:27). And, in his letter to the
Philippians, Paul refers to “The Peace of God that transcends all
understanding” (Philippians 4:7). The same can be said of Joy. The Joy of God
is not given by the world and it is beyond our ability to understand it with
our normal way of thinking and knowing. The Joy of the ‘I Am’ as our true
nature must be expressed and experienced.
Joy is not the same as happiness. Joy is an experience of
the soul that occurs in our realization of our oneness with the soul and with
God. It is a state of mind and heart that can only be experienced at depth in
the consciousness of Oneness.
Anne Robertson, a Methodist pastor, writer and executive
director of the Massachusetts Bible Society, explains that the Greek words ‘Makarios’
and ‘chairo’ provides us with insight into the difference between happiness and
Joy. ‘Makarios’ which has been translated into English as ‘happiness’ refers to
the freedom from cares often experienced by the rich. On the other hand, ‘chairo’
translated into English as ‘Joy’ refers to the “culmination of being” or “the
good mood of the soul.”¹
The Joy that we experience is an expression of our
connection in God, yet it is but an inkling of the inimitable Joy of the
Spirit.
I hesitate to admit this, but as I contemplated Joy this
week, I realized that I don’t often experience it. I felt sad as I recognized
that the concept of Joy is nearly foreign to me now. As I sat with my sadness,
I was able to recall times in my childhood when I experienced Joy. In fact,
there are many times as a child when I felt Joy. I felt Joy running through the
hay barn on my Grandmother Howard’s farm. I felt Joy playing softball on the
dirt road in front of our house where I spent my childhood and adolescence. I felt
Joy when my grandmother Norman would come to stay with us for a few days. I felt
Joy every year as Christmas approached. Not only did I get a break from school,
but I was excited knowing that Santa would bring me all the things on my list.
I felt overwhelming Joy on Christmas morning when I awoke before sunrise with
an eager expectancy ready to see all the things Santa had placed under the tree,
and there were always the gifts from my
parents and grandparents to open as well. And, my Joy was full as we drove from
our home to spend Christmas Day with my favorite cousins. Childhood Joy was a
frequent occurrence.
As I recalled those time of Joy, I asked my inner Knowing,
“Why do I no longer have those Joy-full times?” The answer came quickly. “It is because you fear.” “What do I fear
that keeps me from experiencing Joy?” I asked. The response came, “You fear that Joy will not last or that it will only lead to harm and
hurt. You fear that you do not deserve Joy. And, you fear that you will be
judged for allowing yourself to express your Joy. All of these fears arise from your attachment to your limited idea of
yourself. When you are attached to the adverse
ego identity, fear is your
constant companion. And, fear is the opposite of Joy.”
So, how do I cultivate Joy in my life? I asked. My inner
voice responded,
Go
into the fear. As the Tao Te Ching says “if you want to get rid of something
you must first allow it to flourish.” ² Allow the fear to enlarge. Do not
suppress the fear. Dive into the fear and allow it to have its life. You will
soon see that the fear is the illusion of the adverse ego and the true self
will be revealed to you as the Light of the Christ shines brightly upon it.
Investigate
the fear. Where did the thought that experiencing Joy leads to harm or hurt
come from? Why do you believe that you do not deserve Joy? Whose voice is that?
What are you telling yourself that would make you think you are undeserving of
Joy? Who is going to judge you for expressing your Joy? And, if they do, who
cares?
When
you allow the fear and investigate the story that has stimulated the fear, the
fear will dissipate and return to the nothingness from which it came. Then, Joy
will arise naturally from your soul. You will return to Joy!
Cultivating Joy as a state of mind and heart reveals the
illusory nature of fear and opens the space within the consciousness for the
Christ Light to be born and take its rightful place at the center of your
consciousness awareness. The Christ is born in the manger of your heart. The
Christ is born again and again and again in every moment that you are willing
and able to dive into and move through the fear and allow the truth of your
Being to be revealed.
Metaphysically, angels represent the thoughts of God. The
message of the angels are the insights we receive through our power of Wisdom
and the intuition of our inner Knower. The first utterance of that voice within
says “Fear not…” as it knows that you
are not in Joy, the perfect state of mind and heart that God is in you. It goes
on to say, “I bring you good tiding of great
Joy for all people...” The voice speaks the truth of Joy that is the true
nature of all people and is available to all as we awaken to it. “For unto you is born this day...” The
Christ is born in you every day and every minute of every day as you are
willing and open to allow it. “In the
city of David…” The awareness of the Christ is born in the place of wisdom
in the center of our being through the consciousness of Love. “A savior who is Christ the Lord…” The
indwelling Christ, the self-existent one, the ‘I AM,’ is the Light that reveals
the illusion of fear and saves us from our misperceptions and delusions that we
are not worthy of Joy.
I encourage us all to explore Joy as we prepare our hearts
and minds for the birth and rebirth of the Christ within us during this Advent
season. Take some time to contemplate Joy and discover for yourself if you are
allowing the joy of God to be your experience. If so, I celebrate with you! If
not, dive into the fear and allow it to be revealed as the illusion it is. Ask
yourself what is stimulating the fear in your mind. As you move through the
fear, you will discover the Truth of your Being, the Light of the Christ. In
that Light, you will reclaim Joy.
Joy to the world. The Lord (the self-existent I AM) has come!
¹ Anne Robertson, “Joy
or Happiness?” St John’s United Methodist Church
² Tao Te Ching,
Chapter 36, Translation by Stephen Mitchell
How very beautiful David. It is in the moments of life that sometimes I am overcome with joy and it feels a little like catching a glimpse of the universe. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteIt seems to me that fear is the opposite of many positive emotions. I have heard that fear is the opposite of Joy, Love, Happiness...and more. Sometimes I wonder what fear is about and whether or not it is useful.
ReplyDeleteI find fear useful in its place. I think fear is useful when I am considering doing something that is not going to work out for the best for all involved. Fear is the consequence of considering any decision where things may not be what is the best decision. So I don't fear fear. What I do fear is using my fear wrong or over using my fear. Emotions are not good or bad. They simply are. It is what I do with those emotions that have consequences for me.
Joy and happiness, if there is a difference between them besides the intensity, is something I may have never experienced. I have been happy. I have been very happy. I think I have been joyous but then I am simply saying that I am experiencing a kind of happiness that goes beyond the simple happiness that I try to live my life surrounded by. I can't be Joyous all the time; not in this life. I can't even be happy all the time; not in this life. There are times I will not be happy because of the situations I have encountered during my times experiencing my separateness.
Perhaps it simply comes down to every situation can be joyous, happy, miserable, fearful, or any/every emotion we can think of. It is up to each of us to decide which emotion we want to experience based on what we feel at a particular time. We decide how we feel. Every feeling is valid and should be affirmed. These feelings, these emotions, are the basis of what we are here for. Let's experience fear, anger, and other negative emotions but control them. Most of all, let's experience happiness, joy, love and other positive emotions too. Let us experience these positive emotions more and more each day. Life, even the afterlife and the beforelife, is not about a goal of never feeling negative emotions. Life - before, after and during - is about using our emotions to make the best decisions we can. Now that's a lesson I really need to learn!