Each year, many of us participate in a burning bowl
ceremony on New Year’s Eve, New
Year’s Day or the first Sunday of the New Year. It is an opportunity to free
ourselves from thoughts, resentments, beliefs, and situations that no longer
serve our highest good; the things that we allow to keep us in bondage and
prevent us from embracing our truth and living our dreams. The ritual involves
writing on a piece of paper the things we want to release and ceremoniously
placing the paper into the cleansing and transforming flame of the burning bowl
to be consumed by the fire, thereby freeing us from them. Following this
release, we then write down the things we choose to welcome into our lives. It
is a process of visualizing our lives in the coming year.
The white stone
ceremony is another ritual that many Unity churches and spiritual centers
offer, usually on the first Sunday of the New Year. In the time of Jesus, when
one was released from prison or bondage of any kind, they were given a white
stone as a symbol of their new-found freedom. The white stone ceremony
is a ritual in which we symbolically release ourselves from our own
internal “bondage” by means of guided meditation and imagery, and then open our
hearts and minds to hear the voice of Spirit speaking a new name, a quality of
the Divine Self, a new title, or other meaningful word or phrase that we write
on a white stone. The white stone is intended to be a symbol of who or what we
are to become in the New Year.
Both ceremonies can be
meaningful, yet it is important for us to recognize that they are not magical.
The burning bowl and white stone rituals are opportunities for us to use
physical objects that assist us in grounding our awareness of powerful
spiritual transformation taking place within our consciousness. The ceremonies
in and of themselves do not set us free; they only assist us in having an
external experience of our inner process.
We engage in these
rituals at the close of one year and the beginning of another because we have
come to think of a New Year as an opportunity to begin again; a year represents
a cycle of life. We give ourselves permission to close the door on the past and
open a new door to the future when we turn the page of the calendar from
December to January. There is nothing innately magical about transitioning from
one calendar year to the next. I have found that when I wake up on January 1, I
am still the same person, in the same place, living the same life as when I
went to bed on December 31.
No, there is nothing
magical about the end of one calendar year and the beginning of another;
however, it can be an empowering time if we choose to make it so. We can make
meaningful and lasting changes in our lives as we transform the way we perceive
ourselves, others and the world.
Affecting enduring
change in our lives requires our willingness to question everything we think we
know – everything, no exceptions. We can have no “sacred cows” in
our beliefs if we truly wish to transform our lives. Yes, questioning
everything may seem frightening. After all, what if we discover that who
we think we are, we are not; what then? What would we do if after
questioning everything we think we know we no longer believe anything that
Unity or any other spiritual path has taught us? What if we discover that
every belief we have based our lives on is not true? Would we be
lost? On the contrary, we would find ourselves, and we would free
ourselves. When we question everything we believe to be true, we will discover
what is truly true. We will discover the Truth of who we are; the Truth that
sets us free from the bondage of our beliefs.
We must be willing to
be released from the past, the past conditioning of our minds which convinces
us that we are something other than God in expression (please question that as
well). We must also be willing to be released from bondage of the future, the
belief that at some point in the illusory future we will be free and live the
lives that we dream of. The future is sometimes a stronger prison for our minds
than is the past.
In order to know the
freedom we seek, we must be willing to practice the presence of God in the
present moment. We practice the presence of God when we are willing to
recognize that we are the presence of God. In order that we may practice the
presence of God we must be willing to be present now, not focused on some
memory of the past or on some figment of an imagined future. Freedom exists
only in the present moment because the Allness of God is present in the moment
and our conscious awareness of this truth is the totality of our freedom.
We do not find our
freedom by turning the page of the calendar, or by closing the door on what has
been and opening the door to what will be. We discover our enduring freedom by
opening our minds and hearts to the wonder of the present moment, and all that
God is, in it and through it. We embrace the freedom of our Divine Nature by
accepting that we are the very presence of God right here, right now.
Rituals help us to
affirm our decisions to claim our Truth and set ourselves free. They are
beautiful and meaningful outer expressions of our commitment to choose a new
way of seeing ourselves, others and the world.
Join us on Sunday,
January 1, 2017 as we engage both the burning bowl and white stone ceremonies
during our 10:00 service. Let us free ourselves from the bondage of our own
minds and open to the voice of Spirit eternally calling us into a new vision of
who we truly are.
Happy New Year!