As Thanksgiving
approaches, I think of how much I have to be grateful for. I live a truly
privileged life of health, abundance, safety, freedom, love, and connection
that I often take for granted. Thanksgiving is a reminder to stop, feel
gratitude and give thanks for all the good that I enjoy.
I am also
mindful that there are many people who may feel that they have little or
nothing to be thankful for this year. I know that the pandemic has hit some of
us harder than others. Many have lost loved ones. Some who have survived are
still suffering from the lasting effects of the virus. Others are dealing with
the uncertainty of whether they have been exposed or when they will exhibit
symptoms.
I learned
last week that my brother, Tommy, has the virus. He is not hospitalized but is
experiencing some profound symptoms. I also learned that one of our members,
Jim Luallen, is now hospitalized and on a ventilator due to the virus. Karen,
his wife, has reported that he is stable and is improving. He will most likely
be in the hospital for weeks. Please keep them in your prayers.
On Tuesday, Colorado
Governor Polis and Denver Mayor Hancock announced new restrictions on
businesses in an effort to curtail the spread of the virus. One of which is no
in-person dining in restaurants. Capacity in gyms and other businesses is now
limited to 10%. I have concern for the restaurant and other small business owners
and all who are dependent upon them for their financial wellbeing. Perhaps they
are some who find it challenging to be thankful this year.
I think of
health care workers and first responders who are putting their lives on the
line every day to care for those who are ill and hospitalized. My heart goes
out to the teachers and childcare workers who are caring for and doing their
best to provide quality education for our children in-person, virtually, or a
hybrid of both. They are all weary and worn. They, too, may be facing a
difficult Thanksgiving.
I am
grateful for each of them. I also have empathy and compassion for them. I hold
them in the prayerful consciousness of hope and wholeness. And I ask myself
what more I can do.
I encourage
you to heed the advice of the scientific experts and take the actions
recommended, including wearing a mask, maintaining social distancing, and
refraining from socializing with others outside your immediate family. Stay at
home as much as possible!
My heart
goes out to those who have lost loved ones or who have been persecuted,
injured, or jailed due to the violence of racism, not only in America but
around the world. I feel for those who worry for their safety when simply
driving to the store or work, jogging in their neighborhood, or bird watching
in the park.
I am
saddened to think of those who have been denied opportunities for education,
jobs, and financial gain due to their skin color, gender, sexual orientation,
gender identity or any other natural expression of themselves.
I am
grateful for my newfound awareness of many of these issues. I am grateful for
courageous voices who speak out. I am grateful for the uncommon resilience of
so many. I am grateful for the love ethic embodied by the civil and human
rights leaders, such as Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr, John Lewis, Rosa
Parks, and Mahatma Gandhi, to name a few.
I give
thanks for the contributions that each of them has made. I express my gratitude
by learning more about their lives and their work, as well as about their
struggles. I also express my gratitude by doing what I can to get involved and
help to continue their efforts in the work still to be done. Still, I ask what
more I can do.
I feel
disheartened when I witness our treatment of people experiencing homelessness
in our city. The few possessions they have taken from them. Tents, sometimes
their only refuge from the weather, taken down. Forced to leave areas that are
visible to the public as to avoid disturbing the city’s image. Gross lack of
funding to provide adequate housing, physical and mental healthcare, and other
essential services. They are often a forgotten people relegated to the fringes
of our society.
I am
grateful for organizations, such as Family Promise of Greater Denver, Colorado
Coalition for the Homeless, Denver Rescue Mission and others, who do their best
to provide services to our brothers and sisters who are experiencing
homelessness. I am grateful to the dedicated people who give their time,
energy, and love to meet their needs. I am grateful to the Unity Spiritual
Center Denver community who continues to show up and step up when asked to
contribute to support our partnership with Family Promise.
I can also
embody my gratitude by learning more about the work of these organizations and
do what I can to get involved. I can give from my financial good to support
their work as I am able. I can learn more about legislation that impacts the
lives of those experiencing homelessness and work toward influencing a politics
of love that cares for them and all people.
I realize
that there are many people, not included in those I have mentioned, who are
living with concern about the quality of their daily lives. More and more
people are experiencing depression, substance addiction is on the rise, suicides
have increased, and 50 million people in America live in poverty. They, too,
may find it challenging to feel gratitude.
Please know
that it was not my intention to write a depressing Thanksgiving post. It was
also not my intention to generate gratitude by suggesting that anyone compare
his or her life to another’s. Instead, my intention was to verbalize how
important it is for us to remember those who might not be in the joyous spirit
of Thanksgiving this year and to hold them with empathy, care, and compassion.
This is no
way intended to suggest that we should diminish our own gratitude and
thanksgiving. Depriving ourselves of those feelings and expressions does not
serve anyone, most of all ourselves. I encourage us all to feel gratitude for
all the good that we enjoy. Feel gratitude in conscious connection with the
Allness that we are as expressions of the Divine. Feel gratitude from the
awareness that we are the living enterprise of God, as Unity minister Eric
Butterworth says.
And to
express that gratitude through our thoughts, words, and actions. In one of his
lessons from years ago, Butterworth shared that the Hebrew word for
‘Thanksgiving’ is ‘Todah’ which means “stretching forward of the open hands.” I
encourage us to allow this Thanksgiving to remind us our opportunity is to open
not only our hands to share what we can, but also to open our hearts to give of
our love, especially to those who may be struggling right now.
My hope and
prayer for you is that you live in gratitude and thanksgiving every moment of
every day. Gratitude is an elevated emotion that has the power to transform our
lives and affect the lives of others.
Happy
Thanksgiving!